I've been working with couples for over 40 years. The older I get, the more obvious it is to me that our flaws create a path to the deepest connection. Perfection offers no entry point. Whatever effort we make to appear seamless is just so much denial. Genuine relationships are built on the acceptance of our flaws, not on their absence.
Thanks for taking the time to visit my site. Almost everything you need to know about the kind of therapy I practice can be found here.
Please take a few minutes to read my blog posts. They will go a long way toward helping you understand what I believe is important in relationships, the process of psychotherapy and life in general.
Briefly, my approach relies on an acceptance of the fundamental role paradox plays in our lives. For example, the more we give of ourselves the more of ourselves we have. The less we demand from others the more likely others will be willing to give.
Please take a few minutes to read my blog posts. They will go a long way toward helping you understand what I believe is important in relationships, the process of psychotherapy and life in general.
Briefly, my approach relies on an acceptance of the fundamental role paradox plays in our lives. For example, the more we give of ourselves the more of ourselves we have. The less we demand from others the more likely others will be willing to give.
There's much more but here are the basics...
Couple TherapyCouple therapy offers the opportunity to explore the place that generates the most joy and the most pain.
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Choosing A PathMoving forward demands commitment to a direction. By choosing a path you create forward movement in your life.
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Individual TherapyIndividual therapy offers the opportunity to explore your own experience, both past and present.
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save your marriage... save your life...
When your marriage is in trouble it can feel like your life is in trouble.
The Enneagram is one of the deepest, most insightful systems ever developed for looking at your personality and your relationships. It's the product of centuries of study into what motivates humans at the core.
After identifying your personality type and that of your partner, you will have a map that describes the most important aspects of your inner life and your life together.
With this map you can navigate routes of growth as well as conflict resolution.
After identifying your personality type and that of your partner, you will have a map that describes the most important aspects of your inner life and your life together.
With this map you can navigate routes of growth as well as conflict resolution.