My job as a therapist is to receive information (all kinds of information) without reacting to it. I’m supposed to respond as if what I’m...

From time to time it is useful to assess your relationship…deliberately. This is different from those moments when you find yourself...

For the most part, sexual performance is straightforward. While there are variations on the theme, performance itself is relatively...

David, like most people who take their relationship seriously and want to be a good partner, has had his share of unpleasant...

It’s one thing to look at a relationship and wonder about its health. It’s quite another thing to look at the individual who’s in the...

Imagine for a moment that you are afraid of spiders.  (If you are actually afraid of spiders, this will come easily.) You walk into the...

Each of us has an internal document that details how we operate.  It gives information on how to turn the "engine" on and off, how to...

At its core, a healthy intimate relationship is fluid. Its fluidity is what makes it stable. This works a bit like riding a bicycle. If...

When asked to identify the basic feature of a lasting relationship, most people will say “love.”  Defined in the broadest way, perhaps...

As I recall it, (with a nod to the unreliability of memory) when I was about 15 (it was the mid-1960’s) my Mom asked if I thought she and...